Q: We’ve been together five years, lived together half that time. We have a loving, happy relationship. Recently, I discovered via the computer that he’s fascinated by hard-core pornography, lots of it. When confronted, he said I have no right to be upset,...
Q: I’ve been married 17 years and have a good relationship, but my wife just doesn’t seem attractive to me any more. Fantasy enables me to get in the mood, and we have sex 2 or 3 times a week. Is there a way I can change the way I view my wife? A: First of...
Q: About “Getting Enough Attention” – “How To Get And Use Positive Attention Just For Being”, you list four ways: 1. Choose people who are good at giving it. (Understood) 2. Know You Want it. 3. Go for It. 4. Take the Time to Absorb It....
Q: I believe I have most everything I want and live a good life, but am unable to ever feel contentment (stop and smell the roses). I believe I amplify stressful situations to have a self-purpose. I am afraid that I am not enjoying the things under my nose and one day...
Q: I’m very tired and stressed from work, what types of therapy do you suggest? A: Your question is so vague… but I’d suggest that first you need a good physical checkup to see if there is a medical cause for your tired feeling. Then, if that checks...
