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The Greatest Strength Of The Relationship

TO FIND THE GREATEST STRENGTH, DO THE FOLLOWING:

Add #1 and #4 = When THE OTHER PERSON Is Getting Taken Care Of.

Add #2 and #3 = When YOU Are Getting Taken Care Of.

Add #5 and #6 = When You Are Sharing Opinions Together.

Add #7 and #8 = When You Are Thinking Clearly Together.

Add #9 and #10 = When You Are Playing Together Sexually.

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Now RANK These Totals From Highest To Lowest.

To find BOTH the HIGHEST and the LOWEST Scores, Make These Adjustments:

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WHEN FINDING THE HIGHEST SCORE:
If Two or More of the Highest Scores Are Within 5 Points Of Each Other
Subtract 5 Points From "Sharing Opinions" and Add 5 Points To "Playing Sexually".

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WHEN FINDING THE LOWEST SCORE:
If Two or More of the Lowest Scores Are Within 5 Points Of Each Other
Add 5 Points To "Sharing Opinions" and Subtract 5 Points From "Playing Sexually".

THE HIGHEST TOTAL SCORE IS THE STRENGTH OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
(WRITE IT DOWN. YOU WILL USE IT LATER. )

THE LOWEST TOTAL SCORE IS THE WEAKNESS OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
(WRITE IT DOWN. YOU WILL USE IT LATER.)

CLICK ON YOUR HIGHEST SCORE HERE:

Playing Together Sexually

Thinking Together

Either Person Taking Care Of The Other

Sharing Opinions Together