THE CURSE OF EXPECTATIONS We pick on ourselves when we don’t meet our own expectations. We feel sad and angry when others don’t meet the expectations we put on them. And even when our expectations are met we don’t feel very good about it. We just...
DO YOU NEED PROFESSIONAL HELP? Probably not! Since you are competent enough to read and understand this, the question isn’t whether you need therapy but whether you want it. And whether you want it enough. HOW CAN I TELL IF I WANT THERAPY ENOUGH? You can decide...
MY PROBLEM WITH ANGELS Whenever someone tells me that some force intervened in their life to change things for the better I think I understand completely. I remember times in my own life, and many times in other people’s lives, when a sudden change seemed to...
DON’T MISS THE OBVIOUS Everyone wonders what their dreams mean, and there are many complicated systems one can use to learn about them. Since any attempt at looking inward is rewarding, all of these systems probably help some. But don’t miss the obvious....
On September 11, 2001 the World Trade Center in New York was completely destroyed, and the Pentagon, the center of American military power, was greatly damaged as well. About three thousand people died. All U.S. citizens, and citizens of all other countries, were in...